Top 10 Reasons Why First Love Into History

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Every relationship is complex and has its unique characteristics and reasons for success and/or failure. When all is said and done, things can be so confusing, that both partners feel like they still love each other, but can’t be manage being together, but don’t know why, and blame each other with vague reasons for why things didn’t work out. So, why the hell do most relationships not work out?? As mentioned, there are many reasons both true and imagined about why each unique relationship failed. But when it all comes down to it, it boils down to the same thing: People picked the wrong person to get involved in a relationship with in the first place. Let’s talk about top ten reasons behind those first relationships which never turned into true examples:-

10. Abusive

If your partner has raised a hand like he/she is going to hit you, or has intimidated you in any way, that is a warning sign of physical abuse to come. If he/she breaks your things, shoves you or slaps you- that are the warning sign of a bad relationship. Thus, you find yourself in danger and break the relationship because of choosing a wrong person. that is a warning sign of physical abuse to come. If he/she breaks your things, shoves you or slaps you- that are the warning sign of a bad relationship.

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9. Unrealistic and Unspoken Expectations Harm Relationships

In any relationship, communication is essential. When you are in love, express yourself wholeheartedly to make base strong enough! One needs to let the other person know what is in his or her mind. We cannot keep on second-guessing the other person. Open communication even becomes critical so as not to misunderstand each other. Problems arise when one partner expects the other to read his or her mind and you will agree with me that this is close to impossible.

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8. Failure to communicate

In any relationship, communication is essential. When you are in love, express yourself wholeheartedly to make base strong enough! One needs to let the other person know what is in his or her mind. We cannot keep on second-guessing the other person. Open communication even becomes critical so as not to misunderstand each other. Problems arise when one partner expects the other to read his or her mind and you will agree with me that this is close to impossible.

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7. Physical incompatibility

A lack of interest or attraction and a decline in intimacy are all warning signs of potential sexual incompatibility. Many people starting a new relationship ignore possible signs of incompatibility out of a desire to make their relationship with their new partner work, and then are faced with burgeoning issues once the “new-ness” of the relationship has worn off.Many people starting a new relationship ignore possible signs of incompatibility out of a desire to make their relationship with their new partner work.

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6. Change of Feelings

Love is most likely the reason two people got into a relationship to begin with, but the loss of it also is the reason why many couples drift apart. If you can’t figure out what attracted you to your partner in the first place, you may be on your way to ending this relationship. Feelings change, and this is normal, but throughout a relationship the initial attraction should always remain to some extent. Not being able to connect with your initial feelings of attraction for your partner causes you to become detached from the relationship.

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5. Your first love is your soul-mate…. NOT FOR EVERYONE!

You may have rushed the relationship too fast here. Sometimes relationships are simply casual affairs, for fun or companionship. If you try making it more than that when your partner isn’t ready, they’re going to freak out. If you keep insisting your partner, break-up, anyway, going to happen. Teen agers get into relationship just for fun or just to be called as ‘in-relationship’ and thus, don’t like their partner to treat this as life. The moment things get into serious track the one who take this affair casually or the one who finds it difficult to pull it over (commitment), have the reason to step-back.

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4. Criticism

When the one partner criticizes other about their appearance, weight, looks or any habits, often escalates to saying things like “you are good at/for nothing”. These critical bangs, is the fourth common reason, on head can leads to either depression or bad relationship and ultimately, a break-up. These critical bangs, is the fourth common reason, on head can leads to either depression or bad relationship and ultimately, a break-up.

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3. Insecurity

There is a big difference between real love and emotional attachment. When we get into our first relation, the first ladder is emotional attachment. When we have emotional attachment to someone, and assume the person we love is “EVERYTHING”; we need their attention and presence. When we have excessive attachment to others, we can easily become jealous and demanding. Often attachment occurs out of a sense of insecurity. This insecurity can push that someone in lots of doubts, it is difficult to be “available” all the time to satisfy excessive attachment and de-attach from rest of people in their circle.

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2. Disagreement

When the couple gets in a relationship, they tends to enjoys the differences – likes/ dislikes, personal preferences, career growth, etc during the initial stage of being together. Dealing with those differences is not easy for everyone and thus, leads to disagreement and clashes, which is the second most common reason. More of disagreement means more of fights. The easiest way to resolve these fights is to step out from it.

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1. It’s all about me only!

The most common reason is ‘Selfishness’ which is the root of all relationship problems. When we are selfish we think of ourselves first and foremost. We ignore the needs of others and become ego centric. Ego centric people are never easy to live with; they tend to be a drain on relationships. When we are selfish we want the praise, support and backing of others; but, we are not willing to give anything in return.

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CONCLUSION

When two people come to share a certain special bond, there’s no assurance that the bond will remain strong until the end of their lives. Relationship breakups arise when one or both parties feel the necessity to end the relationship they are in. Love comes into your life, but may leave after a certain period, may be you are not meant to be together or this is not the right to be in-love relationship. People break free from relationships for many different reasons. But, don’t let those break-up effect you for long time!

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