Top 10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a Girl

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Interacting with a girl for the first time might prove to be a difficult task for some people. Well, not anymore. Here are a few good tips to make things easy for you! Have a look.

10. First step

Always greet with a smile, a genuine one. Do not over do it. Secondly, maintain a healthy distance, not too far but not too close either. You don’t want to make her uncomfortable. Give her time to come out of her shell. For starters, it is best to introduce yourself first and let the conversation flow. Always greet with a smile, a genuine one. Do not over do it. Secondly, maintain a healthy distance, not too far but not too close either. You don’t want to make her uncomfortable. Give her time to come out of her shell. For starters, it is best to introduce yourself first and let the conversation flow.

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9. Eye contact

Usually when boys meet a girl for the first time or accidently meet a girl with whom they want to talk, they are never able to make an eye contact. To rectify this, can do something like “accidently” leaving something behind or dropping. This way, she will try to return it to you and you can take hold from there. Remember; always try to maintain eye contact. Usually when boys meet a girl for the first time or accidently meet a girl with whom they want to talk, they are never able to make an eye contact. To rectify this, can do something like “accidently” leaving something behind or dropping. This way, she will try to return it to you and you can take hold from there. Remember; always try to maintain eye contact.

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8. Smile

Not only greet her with a smile but try to maintain one if you are having a conversation with a girl for the first time. It gives out friendly vibes and hence she will become comfortable around you to carry on the conversation. Not only greet her with a smile but try to maintain one if you are having a conversation with a girl for the first time. It gives out friendly vibes and hence she will become comfortable around you to carry on the conversation.

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7. Start with simple talk

When meeting a girl for the first time, try to avoid debatable topics like politics. You should have an easy conversation with trouble-free topics. The best way to talk to a girl is to ask about her. It could be anything from her favorite color to her favorite book. Remember not to pick up any personal topics. If she mentions about her family simply listen to her but never try to dig details on the first time. Also avoid popping questions like, in which lane she lives or at which building she works.

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6. Neutral conversation

If you are trying to have a conversation with a girl, talk about her work (unless she is a spy). This is a good and engaging topic. Whether she hates her work or like it, she’ll have plenty to speak about it. Gradually you can start taking about your work as well. If by any chance you run out of topic, talk about weather. It will automatically lead to other topics like general weather of town, when is the best and worst time to be outdoors etc.

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5. Compliments

In the middle of this list, we have something that everyone loves to have; compliments. Tread very carefully when it comes to complimenting a girl for the first time. Complementing is the best way to give hints that you are interested in her. But do not use words like “hot” or “sexy” during the first meeting and also don’t go the grandma way and use words like “decent” or “sweet”. Girls hate when they are tagged as sweet by guys they like. Thus strike a perfect balance and complement her. You can complement her dress; her looks etc. but never cross the safe zone.

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4. Get to know her

And now we are in the top half of the list! Since asking personal question is off charts, you can always bring out topics that define a person’s personality. Music is one such topic. One can get to know a lot about a person depending upon a person’s taste in music. You can also mention your own choice. Another topic is cuisines. You might get to know if she has travelled to different places and a lot can be known about a person from her preference in food.

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3. Say no to cheesy pick-up lines

Starting a conversation or rather trying to start a conversation with a girl by using a cheesy pick up line is an ultimate failure attempt. Not only she will have a bad impression of you but she’ll turn her back on you as quickly as possible. Many men think that cheesy pick up lines work, but they never work in real life. Starting a conversation or rather trying to start a conversation with a girl by using a cheesy pick up line is an ultimate failure attempt. Not only she will have a bad impression of you but she’ll turn her back on you as quickly as possible. Many men think that cheesy pick up lines work, but they never work in real life.

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2. Humor her!

This one had to be in the top 2! Girls love guys who have a good sense of humor. If you can make a girl laugh, consider half your job as done. Laughing also makes a person comfortable. Chances are that she might open up a bit more after a good laugh. But do not make sarcastic or harsh jokes either. It might backfire. If you can indulge in a conversation and make a girl laugh, you can be sure that she will not deny meeting you next time if you ask her out.

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1. Name

Any guesses for what takes the top spot? What is the first thing you ask anyone? Asking her name should be done within the first 30 seconds of the conversation. After that, make a point to say her name every now and then. Saying a person’s name during a conversation proves that the person is seriously engaging in a conversation with you. Also, saying a person’s name gives a very warm feeling. She will always appreciate this effort from you.

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CONCLUSION

Having made all the points, you must understand that the key to any girl’s heart is Respect. Respect is the foundation of any relationship, be it love or friendship. If you can see the girl repelling from you, be kind enough to give her the private space that she deserves. Sometimes, taking a step back can result into a giant leap forward in a relationship.

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